Finding the words - what to say #babyloss
Finding the words There aren’t many positives to be had when having to end a very much wanted pregnancy for medical reasons. One of the main positives is the reminder of how many truly amazing people I have in my life and that I’m very lucky to be surrounded by supportive and caring people. Sometimes in the hustle and bustle of life this can get lost, but I am now truly appreciative of those around me. Over the past few months my friends have given me a masterclass in how to treat someone who’s going through baby loss. They have been truly brilliant. It makes me wonder how I would have responded if one of my friends was going through a similar time – I probably would have felt awkward, not wanting to say the wrong thing or upset them. Wondering whether it was better to say nothing at all and then coming out with 101 clichés wishing I’d just kept quiet. I feel like I’ve learnt a lot over the past few months from my friends which will hopefully make me a better friend in the lon